I figured out how to build asmack
1) Use this tutorial http://overwatering.org/blog/2013/05/compiling-asmack/
2) After 15th steps do: /android-sdk-linux/tools/android update sdk -u
or limit to some particular platformshttp://stackoverflow.com/questions/4681697/is-there-a-way-to-automate-the-androi d-sdk-installation/4682241#4682241
3) Need Java7 to be installed
4) compiled jar will be located here /home/vagrant/asmack/releases
Original asmack repository has wrong configs, here is a repo with fixes https://github.com/QuickBlox/asmack/